Every one grows as time passes, from adolescence
we reach teenage and then comes the most exciting time our “twenties”. Everyone
passes somehow through their teenage though and finally we all enter our “twenties”.
That’s when you complete your graduation and decide what next? As a woman now,
society gives you the option of marriage, so do you accept it or reject it? The
choice is all yours. Other options also lie along the line; Do you pursue your
career? Do you live your dream? Do you travel?
And what not you wish to do....
You see your friends falling in love, finding
partners, having a fairy tale wedding and what not. It is tempting, but an
advice here, don't hurry into falling in love or getting married. It better to
stay unmarried, than to live with someone whom you are not in love with. There
will be a lot of pressure as you keep growing older every year. But don’t give
up until you find the right guy.
The world is a bad place.
You need to stay safe and secure. You need to be your own kind of hero. There
will always be people around you, expecting you to make sacrifices for them which
you might make but only until it
doesn't affect your own happiness and health. In difficult times only
you can protect yourself. No guy out there is strong
enough to fight back for you or protect you when you are attacked.
Everyone grows up by making
mistakes, even you made a few. You loved a wrong guy, you got cheated upon, you
had a break-up, you slept with a guy, you trusted wrong people, you drank one
night and you became bankrupt and what not. But in the end make sure you learn
something from all this and that is what will make you a strong person for life.
Yes, you made mistakes and accepted them. Big deal! Life teaches lessons and
you learn from it.
Early twenties are usually
quite emotional and crazy. Nothing seems to be falling in place. But the late
twenties get much better. You become wiser, less emotional and tend to get a
grip on your life. So, hang in there and enjoy the ride! Do what you love,
embrace your feminine energy, love the colour pink, discover yourself, fight
back for your rights, receive education and pursue your career, chase your
dreams and in the end when you feel like getting married go for it. But for that too,
take your time. Take all the
time in the world - to make this decision. You know yourself the best and you know
what you can deal with.
Remember
you are beautiful and kind. Give yourself a chance to find what
makes you happy throughout the day to go to bed with a smile on your face. So,
breathe positive energy, this is your time after all. You can bring out the
best in people just with a smile, it's a gift. Grow by taking decisions, not by following directions.”
PS: Every woman is a superwoman in
making, respect her, one day she might come to your rescue.